I sing a lot, not just in the shower but in the shower, the car, the kitchen while cooking or doing dishes, folding laundry, spinning yarn, just about anywhere. I've pretty much always been that way. Being a word nerd who loves to sing, I have a high appreciation for a well-written song. So, I tend to treat (they might call it something different) my family to a lot of Jackson Browne and Nanci Griffith among others. I even sang in a choir when I was younger. Although my husband says I'm always slightly off key, I don't think it's entirely unpleasant to listen to. Lately, like most folks I've found myself singing along to a lot of Adele, and my children have very patiently ridden in the car with me while I belted out songs like "Rumor Has It" and "Chasing Pavements". Today, as I was depositing my newly purchased fern on the deck I was softly singing "To Make You Feel My Love" (Click Play on the video below and listen while reading the rest.)
I got to the line that says, "I can make you happy, make your dreams come true."
My daughter who is 5 was on the deck with me and interrupted, "Mom, is that song true?"
"You mean, can Adele make you happy and make your dreams come true?"
"No, baby, but she's very entertaining isn't she?"
"My dreams never come true." she said with bottom lip sticking out.
"Well, the only person who can make your dreams come true is you and it usually takes a lot of hard work."
When it comes to these philosophical parenting moments, I try to tell my kids the truth as I see it, and sometimes, it takes a little one's question to remind me of a truth that I aught to be acting on in my own life. I've been feeling a little adrift for a couple of weeks on the marketing front and I really need to get back in the groove. In fact, I need to get back in the groove on a number of things. I guess I've had spring fever or something because the last couple of weeks progress on everything seems to have slowed. My novel writing has been a bit like the Little Engine That Could trudging uphill to the end of the second act with agonizing slowness. I've let the frequency of my blog posts slip. I've only promoted my ebook shorts sporadically. In short, I haven't been making it happen. It's not like I haven't known this. I've been castigating myself the whole time for being lazy and unfocused, but it took the innate simplicity of a conversation with my five year old to snap me out of that self-defeating mode and make me get up off my duff.
So thanks, T, you're just the inspiration your mama needed today.